Testimonials for Hospice of New Mexico

"To all of the staff at Hospice of New Mexico, Thank you so much for the excellent care you gave to my mother, Doris over the last seven months of her life. Thank you for all of the comfort and love you gave to her and to me. I especially want to thank Dr. Torres, Danette, Jude and Mary Kay for the wonderful time you all spent with my mother and took care of all of her needs. I want to thank Jude for the beautiful memorial service he gave to remember her and help give closure to so many. Thank you all "
- Glenda and Tom H.

"Dear HONM, There comes a time in all of our lives when we have to depend on others to care for us because we cannot do it ourselves. This is when we ask God's blessing that those we are entrusted to will act with compassion and a heartfelt desire for our welfare. We also pray we can trust them to guide and include us while making medical decisions that will respect our right to decide and also be in our best interest.

When we needed to trust, you were all there to reassure, comfort and support our mother, Mary, and our family during these past months. I, personally, needed that reassurance many times. And no matter how many times I called, you patiently answered my questions and helped allay my fears. I was never rushed or made to feel foolish.

This was one of the most tested times for my mother, myself and family and your support was immeasurable. Each of you is a very special person who possesses a genuine kindness that was so apparent when we first met and proved to be unwavering as time went on. There were many lessons to be learned from this experience. You've all made that experience as gentle as possible. On behalf of myself and my family, Our deepest gratitude."
- R. B., T. and M. B.

"After many years of work in health care and management, I felt that the best gift I could offer my community was a team of professionals who are dedicated to hospice work and equipped to do it well. Most of us who have cared for the dying feel that it is a privilege to be allowed to accompany them on their journeys, to participate in some small way in the final chapter of their life stories. My own desire, as one of the founders of Hospice of New Mexico, was to develop and sustain a team of professionals who provide this most intimate of care, so that they can focus on simply being there for the individuals who need their attention. I believe that an organization that supports its staff can attract and retain individuals who take pride in their work.

Seven years into the Hospice of New Mexico journey, I have been both challenged and richly rewarded by this venture. I am proud of our team of physicians, nurses, social workers, pastoral counselors, and hospice aides, who work directly with patients and families to smooth the path and offer a helping hand. Others of us work behind the scenes. You may hear our voices over the phone, or you may not see or hear from us at all. Still, we each play a role on a team whose entire goal is to use our knowledge and expertise to accompany you, our patients and family members, through a difficult life experience."
- Cathy Conrad, Administrator

"To the Hospice of New Mexico staff, Thank you to each and every one of you. I don't know what I would have done without this group. You taught me so much and allowed me to get through a hard time. My mother loved all of you."
- Sincerely, P. B. & The C. Family

"Dear Ones of Hospice of NM, Thank you for your caring, tender help and support during this difficult time of losing Audrey, I and my daughter thank you from the bottom of our hearts. God Bless you and your work with those of us who need you."
- Sincerely, C. M.

"I am sitting in a room at Hospice of New Mexico with a bereavement support group. I can't believe that I am getting paid for the privilege of witnessing the incredible journeys of these participants. I too am on a journey, one that goes on and on, each time I facilitate a group I allow my own deep wounds to be opened, to bleed from my own raw places. Why would I do this, one might ask? I do this because I love. What a strange thing to say. I do this, I allow myself to be open to the suffering of others, to imagine myself in their places, to remember, to actually return to the dark hole of grief. And what come to my mind is because I love. I think that grief is profound, so mind altering, shape shifting, and transformative that I am knocked off my feet and brought to my knees.

I learn to be humble in the face of the great power that is so beyond my control. So why do I say because of love? Because the uncensored grief that I witness, that I open myself to, evokes tenderness, identification, compassion, deep respect, awe and most of all love."
- Jude Fournier, Bereavement

"Your entire organization excels and it would be a privilege to recommend it to anyone who may require such service."
- Jaylene B.

"The best part of working for Hospice of New Mexico is knowing that I can put a smile on someone's face and give them all the love I have to give. I have an unconditional love for each and every one of these remarkable people and I know they feel the same. In my heart I am returning the favor by serving them in their time of need. I love them all so much it brings tears to my eyes. I know deep down inside that this is the type of work I was meant to do. Caring for others has always been a part of my life dream, since childhood they have been my angels and now I get to be there for them. "
- Dina, Hospice Aide

"Words seem inadequate to express our gratitude for the care our father/husband William received from February until his death on March 10th. We could not have honored his wishes to die at home without the compassionate and professional help provided by Lori who was so empathetic, Dina who was so gentle and caring, Jude who was so comforting to all of us, and Becky who was truly an angel after his passing. This special team managed to diminish the stigma my father associated with hospice; and, after meeting these dedicated team members, he embraced their care and support.

Caring for someone you love in their final days is a life changing experience; and with everyone's help our father/husband died with dignity and grace. Now, as we adjust to our new reality without him and begin to heal our spirits, we still feel Hospice of New Mexico love's arms around us through your bereavement program and the friendships we forged."
- With Love and Gratitude, The W.M. Family

"I have worked for other hospice providers and I can honestly say there is a difference. I have found a team of caring people at Hospice of New Mexico and a company that stands on its values to serve each patient and family with respect and dignity. Our team of compassionate professionals makes it a place I am proud to call home. We take pride in working together to make a difference in the lives we touch.

From Physicians, RN's, Hospice Aides, Social Workers, Bereavement Counselors, Management and Support Services we work as a team providing the best personal care to our patients and families at a very difficult time in life."
- Eileen, RN

"The patients I serve have all touched my heart and I feel privileged to have the honor of serving their needs. Their stories are all unique in every aspect of their lives and passing; there is always a lesson to be learned if you just pull up a chair and listen.

My job allows me to be a caregiver, friend and confidant and for that I am truly grateful. In hospice work I have met people from all walks of life and have learned valuable lessons and priceless knowledge that I will carry with me and pass along to my own children, family and friends. I enjoy making a difference in each patient's life. Letting go can be heart breaking but, I always go back and remember all the good times and inspiring conversations they shared with me and I feel blessed for serving a small part in their life. Each team member at Hospice of New Mexico makes our small company the special place I am glad to call my work place. Joining our elders on their last walk in this life is a distinct honor."
- CeCe, Hospice Aide